Ever wondered where did love gone in the hustle bustle of life. How life got changed with work, children’s, and traffics woes and EMI’s. with all these thoughts are you settling down by the thought .. Life happens.. and this is how it is.
A relationship goes through different stages as we move in life. When we meet someone for the 1st time and they are totally unknown to us we get interested and attracted certain traits and quality they have. We start meeting eventually we get more comfortable .Even in case of arranged marriage a similar pattern is followed however may be in more formal way. When we meet any one we try to put the best of us forward however As we get more comfortable with the person who once was unknown we naturally start to drift to our true self which includes few great qualities and few flaws which we all have , after all we are human being correct?
What happens then? Now we start to wonder what happened to this person who once was so cool suddenly why loosing temperament, who was so supportive why started nagging. Most of the time love is still there just we miss to express it or even we and our partner express it we fail to understand it as the way its expressed is different than the way we expect. Love languages plays a important part in expressing love, many time due to the difference in this language we drift apart.
What we can do? Understand your partner love languages, and observe they might be expressing love in certain ways, may be different than yours but still that is expression of love. Notice the core complains ad you may get an insight towards there love language. And once there is flow of love life flourish beautifully